Pretty much. The relevance for NLP is that if you’re trying to help someone out of say, a self-defeating mindset or victim state, then you need to be able to (at minimum) control your own frame so as not to get pulled into whatever role the person’s problems try to assign you (e.g. rescuer or persecutor).
The main thing I dislike about this post’s framing of frame control is that the original meaning of “frame control” is maintaining your own frame—i.e. the antidote to the abusive and manipulative behaviors described in this post. Not allowing yourself to be sucked in or trapped by the frames that other people attempt to establish, intentionally or not.
Pretty much. The relevance for NLP is that if you’re trying to help someone out of say, a self-defeating mindset or victim state, then you need to be able to (at minimum) control your own frame so as not to get pulled into whatever role the person’s problems try to assign you (e.g. rescuer or persecutor).
The main thing I dislike about this post’s framing of frame control is that the original meaning of “frame control” is maintaining your own frame—i.e. the antidote to the abusive and manipulative behaviors described in this post. Not allowing yourself to be sucked in or trapped by the frames that other people attempt to establish, intentionally or not.