It’s why you can hardly ever get honest answers to questions like “would you sleep with a member of the same sex for a million dollars.”
If it came down to actually making the choice, I’m pretty sure most straight men would sleep with a man for a million dollars. Only the naive are going to admit to it when it’s a hypothetical, though, because the hypothetical question leaks information about your character. Choosing between a million dollars and your hetero-normal reputation is one thing—choosing between saying that you’d take the million dollars and saying that you’re too hetero-normal to do so is another.
I’m curious what your confidence level about the counterfactual is here. I both would answer that question no, and would honestly expect most other men to genuinely refuse this offer if actually presented with it.
Possibly I’m hitting myself with the typical mind fallacy here (I test as purely-straight when taking analyses of sexual preference, so maybe men who test as mostly-straight would behave differently; I’m also much less materialistic than most people—I could have chosen more lucrative careers but preferred to do something I enjoy.)
Is there really any experimental evidence for your assertion?
Let’s play the money as dead children game for a bit. Now, when the article was written you could plausibly save 1life for about $1000, but these days I think the number is a bit higher. Let’s say $10000 just to be safe.
Essentially, you’re saying that you would sacrifice the lives of 100 people in order to avoid a brief homosexual experience, using basic consequentialism. Perhaps you won’t change your mind even when thinking about the proposition from this perspective, but I know personally it would be too difficult ethically for me to refuse.
It doesn’t have to be lives, of course. If you’re more of a preferential consequentialist, you can help pay off your mates’ crippling student debt or mortgage, or donate to a longevity charity to help your chances of not dying, or even MIRI or something.
In any case, a million dollars has a lot of potential utility. Refusing because you’re not ‘materialistic’ is a bit short-sighted, I think.
I would enthusiastically answer yes to both questions. The first is a million dollars for 35 minutes of moderate discomfort. The second signals that I’m both tolerant and confident in my heterosexuality. I don’t even have to ponder this.
It gets more interesting as the price comes down and I would have clarifying questions if we wanted to determine the exact level, and the answers would probably be different. I don’t know how common my answer is, but I suspect very common among my demographic cohort (white, urban, mid-twenties, of the liberal tribe). A rationalist friend recently gave his price as $200, which would be too low for me.
would honestly expect most other men to genuinely refuse this offer if actually presented with it.
That’s more of an issue with making sure that the logistics work right—the prior for someone going around with a million dollars to spend to get straight men to sleep with them is so low that “this is obviously a scam or a ruse of some sort” eats up the remaining probability mass.
Imagine instead of some guy coming up to you with the offer, you get a phone call from your attorney. He says he is in the room with some %celebrity’s attorney with a million dollar check on the table, and lays out the offer for you.
It’s why you can hardly ever get honest answers to questions like “would you sleep with a member of the same sex for a million dollars.”
If it came down to actually making the choice, I’m pretty sure most straight men would sleep with a man for a million dollars. Only the naive are going to admit to it when it’s a hypothetical, though, because the hypothetical question leaks information about your character. Choosing between a million dollars and your hetero-normal reputation is one thing—choosing between saying that you’d take the million dollars and saying that you’re too hetero-normal to do so is another.
Probably because it’s a trap :-D
Which sex acts, exactly, would I be expected to perform? I may have difficulty sustaining an erection under the circumstances… ;)
I’m curious what your confidence level about the counterfactual is here. I both would answer that question no, and would honestly expect most other men to genuinely refuse this offer if actually presented with it.
Possibly I’m hitting myself with the typical mind fallacy here (I test as purely-straight when taking analyses of sexual preference, so maybe men who test as mostly-straight would behave differently; I’m also much less materialistic than most people—I could have chosen more lucrative careers but preferred to do something I enjoy.)
Is there really any experimental evidence for your assertion?
Let’s play the money as dead children game for a bit. Now, when the article was written you could plausibly save 1life for about $1000, but these days I think the number is a bit higher. Let’s say $10000 just to be safe.
Essentially, you’re saying that you would sacrifice the lives of 100 people in order to avoid a brief homosexual experience, using basic consequentialism. Perhaps you won’t change your mind even when thinking about the proposition from this perspective, but I know personally it would be too difficult ethically for me to refuse.
It doesn’t have to be lives, of course. If you’re more of a preferential consequentialist, you can help pay off your mates’ crippling student debt or mortgage, or donate to a longevity charity to help your chances of not dying, or even MIRI or something.
In any case, a million dollars has a lot of potential utility. Refusing because you’re not ‘materialistic’ is a bit short-sighted, I think.
I think he’s questioning your claim about “most people”, not whether that claim applies to himself, which I think he has already admitted.
I would enthusiastically answer yes to both questions. The first is a million dollars for 35 minutes of moderate discomfort. The second signals that I’m both tolerant and confident in my heterosexuality. I don’t even have to ponder this.
It gets more interesting as the price comes down and I would have clarifying questions if we wanted to determine the exact level, and the answers would probably be different. I don’t know how common my answer is, but I suspect very common among my demographic cohort (white, urban, mid-twenties, of the liberal tribe). A rationalist friend recently gave his price as $200, which would be too low for me.
That’s more of an issue with making sure that the logistics work right—the prior for someone going around with a million dollars to spend to get straight men to sleep with them is so low that “this is obviously a scam or a ruse of some sort” eats up the remaining probability mass.
Imagine instead of some guy coming up to you with the offer, you get a phone call from your attorney. He says he is in the room with some %celebrity’s attorney with a million dollar check on the table, and lays out the offer for you.