I try not to think (primarily) in terms of convenience, because from everything I’ve heard, it seems like adult cases of gender dysphoria don’t go away and only get worse over time, eventually outweighing almost anything else. Conditional on the hypothesis that I do in fact have a transgender brain, I’d expect that if I decided to avoid transitioning now for instrumental reasons, I’d only end up regretting it later.
I did have some thoughts along those lines… e.g. at one point I was mildly wishing to be taller (I’m 5′6″) for social impressiveness reasons, though now I’m quite happy about my height and my generally not-very-masculine build. And when I was just starting to seriously wonder about this, or possibly even before then, I already had a general sense that I’d probably want to transition at some point, but I hoped I could put it off until after the singularity and put it out of my mind until then. Of course, that didn’t work out, it didn’t go away and after a few months it got to the point where I was almost constantly preoccupied by it. At that point the instrumental considerations didn’t seem that compelling.
Anyway, given my current state of information I’m still satisfied that I’m making the right decision at the moment, but thanks for sharing your experience!
I try not to think (primarily) in terms of convenience, because from everything I’ve heard, it seems like adult cases of gender dysphoria don’t go away and only get worse over time, eventually outweighing almost anything else. Conditional on the hypothesis that I do in fact have a transgender brain, I’d expect that if I decided to avoid transitioning now for instrumental reasons, I’d only end up regretting it later.
I did have some thoughts along those lines… e.g. at one point I was mildly wishing to be taller (I’m 5′6″) for social impressiveness reasons, though now I’m quite happy about my height and my generally not-very-masculine build. And when I was just starting to seriously wonder about this, or possibly even before then, I already had a general sense that I’d probably want to transition at some point, but I hoped I could put it off until after the singularity and put it out of my mind until then. Of course, that didn’t work out, it didn’t go away and after a few months it got to the point where I was almost constantly preoccupied by it. At that point the instrumental considerations didn’t seem that compelling.
Anyway, given my current state of information I’m still satisfied that I’m making the right decision at the moment, but thanks for sharing your experience!