I think it has mostly been pretty civil. I have nothing against the OP and don’t think he is malicious. Just think the situation is unfortunate. I was not blameless. We should have explicitly mentioned in the emails to not publish notes. And I should have asked OP flat out to remove it in my initial reply, rather than my initial slightly timid attempt.
Most of our meetups are recorded and posted publicly and obviously we are fine with summarization and notes, but about 1⁄10 guests prefer them to not be recorded.
I think I may have misinterpreted the intent of the comments if that is the case, which is on me. To me the situation just seemed a bit too accusitory to one person who I didnt think meant to make a mistake and was trying to offer valuable info and in trying to state that I think I came across a bit too harsh as well. I’ll work on that for next time. It seems you have a good plan going forward and I appreciate your reply.
I think it has mostly been pretty civil. I have nothing against the OP and don’t think he is malicious. Just think the situation is unfortunate. I was not blameless. We should have explicitly mentioned in the emails to not publish notes. And I should have asked OP flat out to remove it in my initial reply, rather than my initial slightly timid attempt.
Most of our meetups are recorded and posted publicly and obviously we are fine with summarization and notes, but about 1⁄10 guests prefer them to not be recorded.
I think I may have misinterpreted the intent of the comments if that is the case, which is on me. To me the situation just seemed a bit too accusitory to one person who I didnt think meant to make a mistake and was trying to offer valuable info and in trying to state that I think I came across a bit too harsh as well. I’ll work on that for next time. It seems you have a good plan going forward and I appreciate your reply.