Can you unpack this goal a little for me? Is your desire to constrain your future self from some activities, or something more subtle? Is this an exploration of a possiblity to see what effect it’ll have, or a plan to solve a specific problem that you’ve identified?
Your last few sentences makes me think this is more like performance art than any rational goal-driven decision. If you’re planning to arrange your life around this, I suspect you simply can’t live in an urban setting. Teaching math isn’t safe, you will be surrounded by people who don’t share your phobia. Farmhand may or may not be safe.
This is the next step in a series of escalating steps I have taken to try to fix a worsening problem. I understand that from your perspective this probably looks like a very drastic action taken for no adequately explained reason, but I think of it as a very proportionate response adopted after lesser options have been exhausted.
As for my goal… let’s just say I find this passage very familiar, except instead of “day” it’s “days”, or perhaps “weeks”:
Opening Safari is an actively destructive decision. I am asking that consciousness be taken away from me. Like the lost time between leaving a party drunk and materializing somehow at your front door, the internet robs you of a day you can visit recursively or even remember.
Could you elaborate on why you think teaching math in a city might not be safe but being a farmhand in the country might be? If every city starts installing open WiFi networks you might be right, but right now it seems to me that creating an internet-less place at home should be enough (I’m glad routers are now coming locked by default, with long-ass alphanumeric passwords).
Simple part first: yes, I claim that every city has or will soon have near-ubiquitous internet access. If you need to deny your future self the ability to choose to use the internet easily, you won’t be able to live in a city. Further, surrounding yourself with internet users is going to prove much harder to resist than surrounding yourself with a non-technical, somewhat isolated community.
Harder part: I don’t know what you’ve tried already (and specifically: get professional psychological assistance, which often requires that you try multiple providers until you find one you trust). This level of avoidance (where you’re considering careers based on availability) seems way more than you should undertake via self-diagnosis only.
Simple part first: yes, I claim that every city has or will soon have near-ubiquitous internet access. If you need to deny your future self the ability to choose to use the internet easily, you won’t be able to live in a city.
One doesn’t follow from the other.
Take out any built-in wifi hardware; get a usb wireless module. These are tiny enough that you can employ almost any security/inconvenience measure on them. Decide which security/inconvenience measures are appropriate. Done.
I suspect I’m taking jaime2000′s situation a little more seriously than perhaps I should. If one is considering rearranging one’s life around this for many years, that’s not a matter of a little inconvenience or simple “prevent devices I own/carry from internetting”. It’s a matter of “don’t associate with people who aren’t supportive, and deny myself access to kiosks, public wifi, borrowed tablets, etc.”
If your concern is that you’ll end up on the street offering sexual favors for a glance a wikipedia, having a net nanny on your computer at home isn’t sufficient.
Now, it may not be that it’s a harmful serious addiction that he or she is facing, and the original post was overstated. Identifying the underlying problem is necessary before suggesting technological band-aids.
Simple part first: yes, I claim that every city has or will soon have near-ubiquitous internet access. If you need to deny your future self the ability to choose to use the internet easily, you won’t be able to live in a city. Further, surrounding yourself with internet users is going to prove much harder to resist than surrounding yourself with a non-technical, somewhat isolated community.
Like I said, I fear for the future. There are some ideas which would help even in a future full of free Wi-Fi connections (I’ve been toying with the idea of buying an 5th generation iMac, which was the last model of iMacs not to include a built-in WiFi antenna, and installing Windows on it; or I could just pay some IT dude to physically rip the internal antenna from a new laptop machine), but if it reaches the point of a free internet terminal in every room or something like that, then yes, I may well have to flee first world cities. That said, we aren’t there yet, so I might as well take advantage of cities while I can.
Harder part: I don’t know what you’ve tried already (and specifically: get professional psychological assistance, which often requires that you try multiple providers until you find one you trust). This level of avoidance (where you’re considering careers based on availability) seems way more than you should undertake via self-diagnosis only.
I find the idea that I am supposed to consult with a “professional” before making drastic changes to my life a little creepy. However, if this doesn’t work, I will seriously start to consider the use of psychiatric medication, which will necessitate talking to a shrink.
I find the idea that I am supposed to consult with a “professional” before making drastic changes to my life a little creepy.
Yeah, it is a bit creepy. For some types of changes (those that are related to common, diagnosable behavioral problems), it can still be incredibly valuable.
Can you unpack this goal a little for me? Is your desire to constrain your future self from some activities, or something more subtle? Is this an exploration of a possiblity to see what effect it’ll have, or a plan to solve a specific problem that you’ve identified?
Your last few sentences makes me think this is more like performance art than any rational goal-driven decision. If you’re planning to arrange your life around this, I suspect you simply can’t live in an urban setting. Teaching math isn’t safe, you will be surrounded by people who don’t share your phobia. Farmhand may or may not be safe.
This is the next step in a series of escalating steps I have taken to try to fix a worsening problem. I understand that from your perspective this probably looks like a very drastic action taken for no adequately explained reason, but I think of it as a very proportionate response adopted after lesser options have been exhausted.
As for my goal… let’s just say I find this passage very familiar, except instead of “day” it’s “days”, or perhaps “weeks”:
Could you elaborate on why you think teaching math in a city might not be safe but being a farmhand in the country might be? If every city starts installing open WiFi networks you might be right, but right now it seems to me that creating an internet-less place at home should be enough (I’m glad routers are now coming locked by default, with long-ass alphanumeric passwords).
Simple part first: yes, I claim that every city has or will soon have near-ubiquitous internet access. If you need to deny your future self the ability to choose to use the internet easily, you won’t be able to live in a city. Further, surrounding yourself with internet users is going to prove much harder to resist than surrounding yourself with a non-technical, somewhat isolated community.
Harder part: I don’t know what you’ve tried already (and specifically: get professional psychological assistance, which often requires that you try multiple providers until you find one you trust). This level of avoidance (where you’re considering careers based on availability) seems way more than you should undertake via self-diagnosis only.
One doesn’t follow from the other.
Take out any built-in wifi hardware; get a usb wireless module. These are tiny enough that you can employ almost any security/inconvenience measure on them. Decide which security/inconvenience measures are appropriate. Done.
I suspect I’m taking jaime2000′s situation a little more seriously than perhaps I should. If one is considering rearranging one’s life around this for many years, that’s not a matter of a little inconvenience or simple “prevent devices I own/carry from internetting”. It’s a matter of “don’t associate with people who aren’t supportive, and deny myself access to kiosks, public wifi, borrowed tablets, etc.”
If your concern is that you’ll end up on the street offering sexual favors for a glance a wikipedia, having a net nanny on your computer at home isn’t sufficient.
Now, it may not be that it’s a harmful serious addiction that he or she is facing, and the original post was overstated. Identifying the underlying problem is necessary before suggesting technological band-aids.
Like I said, I fear for the future. There are some ideas which would help even in a future full of free Wi-Fi connections (I’ve been toying with the idea of buying an 5th generation iMac, which was the last model of iMacs not to include a built-in WiFi antenna, and installing Windows on it; or I could just pay some IT dude to physically rip the internal antenna from a new laptop machine), but if it reaches the point of a free internet terminal in every room or something like that, then yes, I may well have to flee first world cities. That said, we aren’t there yet, so I might as well take advantage of cities while I can.
I find the idea that I am supposed to consult with a “professional” before making drastic changes to my life a little creepy. However, if this doesn’t work, I will seriously start to consider the use of psychiatric medication, which will necessitate talking to a shrink.
Yeah, it is a bit creepy. For some types of changes (those that are related to common, diagnosable behavioral problems), it can still be incredibly valuable.