I see interesting points on both sides here. Something about how this comment(s) is expressed makes me feel uncomfortable, like this isn’t the right tone for exploring disagreements about correct moral/cooperative behavior, it at least it makes it a lot harder for me to participate. I think it’s something like it feels like performing moral outrage/indignation in a way that feels more persuadey than explainy, and more in the direction of social pressure, norms-enforcery. The phrase “shame on you” is a particularly clear thing I’ll point at that makes me perceive this.
I see interesting points on both sides here. Something about how this comment(s) is expressed makes me feel uncomfortable, like this isn’t the right tone for exploring disagreements about correct moral/cooperative behavior, it at least it makes it a lot harder for me to participate. I think it’s something like it feels like performing moral outrage/indignation in a way that feels more persuadey than explainy, and more in the direction of social pressure, norms-enforcery. The phrase “shame on you” is a particularly clear thing I’ll point at that makes me perceive this.