The boss is already burning puppies, so it’s not like the first-level harm is any worse just because I know about it.
Knowing the dark secret will produce resentment for your boss. That resentment is likely to make it harder for you to get work done. If you see him with a big smile in the morning you won’t think:
“He seems like a nice guy because he’s smilling” but “Is he so happy because he burned puppies yesterday?”
Well, maybe. I’m actually skeptical that it would have much effect on my productivity. But to reverse the question, suppose you actually did know this about your boss. If you could snap your fingers and erase the knowledge from your brain, would you do it? Would you go on deleting all information that causes you to resent someone, so long as that information wasn’t visibly relevant to some other pending decision?
Deleting information doesn’t make emotions go away. Being afraid and not knowing the reason for being afraid is much worse than just being afraid.
You start to rationalize the emotions with bogus stories to get the emotions make sense.
Knowing the dark secret will produce resentment for your boss. That resentment is likely to make it harder for you to get work done. If you see him with a big smile in the morning you won’t think: “He seems like a nice guy because he’s smilling” but “Is he so happy because he burned puppies yesterday?”
Well, maybe. I’m actually skeptical that it would have much effect on my productivity. But to reverse the question, suppose you actually did know this about your boss. If you could snap your fingers and erase the knowledge from your brain, would you do it? Would you go on deleting all information that causes you to resent someone, so long as that information wasn’t visibly relevant to some other pending decision?
Deleting information doesn’t make emotions go away. Being afraid and not knowing the reason for being afraid is much worse than just being afraid. You start to rationalize the emotions with bogus stories to get the emotions make sense.