I think this book is well worth reading (and then rereading every few years). Robin’s take.
It proves too much—cool jocks don’t enjoy hanging around nerds even though it presumably makes them feel important.
I think this is evidence for Carnegie’s thesis- cool jocks enjoy exerting dominance over nerds, because exerting dominance makes them feel important. They don’t enjoy hanging around nerds because that doesn’t make them feel important, because nerds are (generally) not good at making other people feel important.
They don’t enjoy hanging around nerds because that doesn’t make them feel important, because nerds are (generally) not good at making other people feel important.
That is true and a partial explanation. It is also significant that nerds make people feel important based on different criteria and in response to different stimulus. This makes some of the dominance asserting skills that the jocks have less useful.
I think this book is well worth reading (and then rereading every few years). Robin’s take.
I think this is evidence for Carnegie’s thesis- cool jocks enjoy exerting dominance over nerds, because exerting dominance makes them feel important. They don’t enjoy hanging around nerds because that doesn’t make them feel important, because nerds are (generally) not good at making other people feel important.
That is true and a partial explanation. It is also significant that nerds make people feel important based on different criteria and in response to different stimulus. This makes some of the dominance asserting skills that the jocks have less useful.