In intellectual circles, it often seems to be considered acceptable to communicate intellectual disagreement in an assertive way, the assumption being that everyone knows that disagreement isn’t personal. This communication style jars some intellectuals, and it enjoyed by others. Non-intellectual people universally hate this communication style.
Good point about “you’re wrong,” which has unnerved me a few times. Also, especially on this site: “you’re unethical” or “that’s unethical.”
In intellectual circles, it often seems to be considered acceptable to communicate intellectual disagreement in an assertive way, the assumption being that everyone knows that disagreement isn’t personal. This communication style jars some intellectuals, and it enjoyed by others. Non-intellectual people universally hate this communication style.