Your comments sound as if I wrote it myself =) But wait, do you have Asperger’s? If so, I should really get checked.
Growing up, my social skills were fairly slow to develop, but at this point in my life, I’ve practiced enough to actually be quite socially savvy with people. I can easily weave humour, emotional intelligence, facial expressions, deep comprehension, etc into my conversations. I’m always making new friends.
But, I’ve never been able to handle environments with too much stimulus (bars/clubs), when someone’s voice is overlapping with a dozen other voices in the room: I can’t understand them. When there’s constant noises, light displays, many events around me: I feel a sort of confusion / cognitive dissonance.
This is not a matter of introversion/extroversion in my case: my ability to comprehend people in these environments just drops. Sometimes to the point where I seem deaf. However in 1-on-1 situations, there’s no issues. I can be quite extroverted, an initiator.
“When many people talk at once I can’t distinguish their voices” is a common first symptom of hearing damage. “I can’t hear when somebody is whispering” is unusual as first symptom. So I would guess that the answer to your question is yes. And in any case, if you go to an ear doctor they can find out for certain whether or not you have a hearing problem.
That’s true, however people with severe hearing loss can often hear faint sounds provided the sounds contain frequencies that stimulate the cilia in their cochlea that remain undamaged. A person with normal hearing will tend to tolerate more audio interference than a hearing impaired person.
But, I’ve never been able to handle environments with too much stimulus (bars/clubs), when someone’s voice is overlapping with a dozen other voices in the room: I can’t understand them. When there’s constant noises, light displays, many events around me: I feel a sort of confusion / cognitive dissonance.
Doesn’t sound like a hearing problem to me. It sounds more like you’re easily overwhelmed, which is pretty common, and may mean you have a very very slight amount of sensory integration difficulties, which is one symptom of the autism spectrum.
Your comments sound as if I wrote it myself =) But wait, do you have Asperger’s? If so, I should really get checked.
Growing up, my social skills were fairly slow to develop, but at this point in my life, I’ve practiced enough to actually be quite socially savvy with people. I can easily weave humour, emotional intelligence, facial expressions, deep comprehension, etc into my conversations. I’m always making new friends.
But, I’ve never been able to handle environments with too much stimulus (bars/clubs), when someone’s voice is overlapping with a dozen other voices in the room: I can’t understand them. When there’s constant noises, light displays, many events around me: I feel a sort of confusion / cognitive dissonance.
This is not a matter of introversion/extroversion in my case: my ability to comprehend people in these environments just drops. Sometimes to the point where I seem deaf. However in 1-on-1 situations, there’s no issues. I can be quite extroverted, an initiator.
If this is your only or primary problem I would recommend having your hearing checked before you start on the neuro stuff.
Okay, I’ll keep this in mind, but is this potentially a hearing problem when I can hear people whispering to me 1-on-1?
“When many people talk at once I can’t distinguish their voices” is a common first symptom of hearing damage. “I can’t hear when somebody is whispering” is unusual as first symptom. So I would guess that the answer to your question is yes. And in any case, if you go to an ear doctor they can find out for certain whether or not you have a hearing problem.
I think sensitivity to faint sounds and the ability to sort signal from background noise are separate abilities.
That’s true, however people with severe hearing loss can often hear faint sounds provided the sounds contain frequencies that stimulate the cilia in their cochlea that remain undamaged. A person with normal hearing will tend to tolerate more audio interference than a hearing impaired person.
Doesn’t sound like a hearing problem to me. It sounds more like you’re easily overwhelmed, which is pretty common, and may mean you have a very very slight amount of sensory integration difficulties, which is one symptom of the autism spectrum.