There are basically two situations that lead to this: First, the other person is interested in you, but is somewhat awkward and uses this as a rather blunt test to measure your interest in them. Second, if person is not interested in you, but sees you as a means of getting a free drink.
That doesn’t cover Mallah’s story. I think the free drinks explanation is largely a confabulation by girls who don’t know why they do it.
Second, if person is not interested in you, but sees you as a means of getting a free drink.
I believe that covers that story perfectly. he approached an attractive woman, who saw him as a sucker who’d buy her an expensive drink, which he did, whereupon she promptly ignored him. If that’s not exactly what I said, I don’t know what is.
It covers the story up to the point of her not taking the drink. Perhaps she just wanted to see if she could. I agree that getting him to buy the drink may be more significant than actually consuming it. Or it could simply be a way of chastising someone she didn’t believe should be talking to her. Or, perhaps, she simply forgot.
For practical purposes, she’s not different whether she takes the drink or not. It’s still a waste of money. If she didn’t forget, it’s likely she simply got a kick out of ordering some guy around. Not a situation I anticipated, but certainly deserving the same response as the selfish drinker.
That doesn’t cover Mallah’s story. I think the free drinks explanation is largely a confabulation by girls who don’t know why they do it.
I believe that covers that story perfectly. he approached an attractive woman, who saw him as a sucker who’d buy her an expensive drink, which he did, whereupon she promptly ignored him. If that’s not exactly what I said, I don’t know what is.
It covers the story up to the point of her not taking the drink. Perhaps she just wanted to see if she could. I agree that getting him to buy the drink may be more significant than actually consuming it. Or it could simply be a way of chastising someone she didn’t believe should be talking to her. Or, perhaps, she simply forgot.
For practical purposes, she’s not different whether she takes the drink or not. It’s still a waste of money. If she didn’t forget, it’s likely she simply got a kick out of ordering some guy around. Not a situation I anticipated, but certainly deserving the same response as the selfish drinker.