I have, and have talked with others who have encountered weaponized NVC and it is indeed super horrible. People get gaslighted, having their own emotional needs used to enforce ideological consistent behavior.
I’d put the disclaimer ‘Don’t go around handing the keys to your soul to people who don’t give a shit about you. Self identified ‘utilitarians’ might not give a shit about you, so be careful.′
I have, and have talked with others who have encountered weaponized NVC and it is indeed super horrible. People get gaslighted, having their own emotional needs used to enforce ideological consistent behavior.
I’d put the disclaimer ‘Don’t go around handing the keys to your soul to people who don’t give a shit about you. Self identified ‘utilitarians’ might not give a shit about you, so be careful.′