I cannot of course say exactly what kind of goal they have, but for the sake of simplicity say that selflesslovespreader A wants to make other people feel good to feel good about making other people feel good.
Simpler still to say that selflesslovespreader A wants to make other people feel good, period. The addition of meta-level feelings does not add anything, and indeed detracts from it. People want what they want, not a simulacrum of the thing in the form of their beliefs and feelings about achieving the thing itself..
Simpler still to say that selflesslovespreader A wants to make other people feel good, period. The addition of meta-level feelings does not add anything, and indeed detracts from it. People want what they want, not a simulacrum of the thing in the form of their beliefs and feelings about achieving the thing itself..