Emotional awareness is a skill that can be cultivated, and increases one’s agreeableness. Watch a disagreeable person in action and it’s pretty obvious that they’re not really picking up how other people are reacting to their behavior. Note that it’s much easier to see disagreeable behavior is in others than in oneself. The challenge in becoming more agreeable lies partly in seeing oneself as others see you.
Emotional awareness is a skill that can be cultivated, and increases one’s agreeableness. Watch a disagreeable person in action and it’s pretty obvious that they’re not really picking up how other people are reacting to their behavior. Note that it’s much easier to see disagreeable behavior is in others than in oneself. The challenge in becoming more agreeable lies partly in seeing oneself as others see you.