This is very definitely a confusion over what evolution values versus what organisms value. Suppose you were faced with a choice: get sterilized now, or get shot in ten years. Evolution would favor B but the vast majority of people themselves would favor A.
Interestingly though, if the choice is: get shot now or one of your children gets shot now most people would choose the former.
Interestingly though, if the choice is: get shot now or one of your children gets shot now most people would choose the former.