I agree completely that it’s not simple and requires time and effort. I am, as I said explicitly, not criticizing your choice of words. I’m criticizing your listening skills.
This whole thread got started because you chose to interpret “programming morality” in a fairly narrow way to mean something unreasonable, and then chose to criticize that unreasonable thing.
I am suggesting that next time around, you can profitably make more of an effort as a listener to meet the speaker halfway and think about what reasonable thing they might have been trying to express, rather than interpret their words narrowly to suggest something unreasonable. Just as you value others doing the same for you.
I agree completely that it’s not simple and requires time and effort.
I am, as I said explicitly, not criticizing your choice of words.
I’m criticizing your listening skills.
This whole thread got started because you chose to interpret “programming morality” in a fairly narrow way to mean something unreasonable, and then chose to criticize that unreasonable thing.
I am suggesting that next time around, you can profitably make more of an effort as a listener to meet the speaker halfway and think about what reasonable thing they might have been trying to express, rather than interpret their words narrowly to suggest something unreasonable.
Just as you value others doing the same for you.