My guess: The purpose of crying is to make people around you more likely to help you.
So if you don’t have shoes, there is a chance that crying in public will make someone give you money to buy the shoes. But if there is a person without feet nearby, your chances become smaller, because people will redirect their limited altruist budgets to that other person. Your crying becomes less profitable.
… Alright, but… that’s a separate point to make altogether. It’s not a quote about making yourself as likely as possible to get others to help you, and, I would say, it doesn’t have to be; it’s a quote about how other people’s negative experiences influence the way you feel about yours.
I think both your comment and the quote are forgetting the instrumental purpose of crying and/or feeling bad.
I can’t say I see your point. Mind explaining?
My guess: The purpose of crying is to make people around you more likely to help you.
So if you don’t have shoes, there is a chance that crying in public will make someone give you money to buy the shoes. But if there is a person without feet nearby, your chances become smaller, because people will redirect their limited altruist budgets to that other person. Your crying becomes less profitable.
… Alright, but… that’s a separate point to make altogether. It’s not a quote about making yourself as likely as possible to get others to help you, and, I would say, it doesn’t have to be; it’s a quote about how other people’s negative experiences influence the way you feel about yours.
Unfortunately, I’ve met a lot of people who forget the instrumental purposes of crying and/or feeling bad. =[