… I think I see where you’re coming from—by realizing we’re not at the far end of the unhappiness scale (since we have a counterexample to that), we should calibrate our feelings about our situation accordingly, yes?
It’s still not the way I view things; I’d like to say I prefer judging these things according to an absolute standard, but it’s likely that that would be less true for me than I want it to be. To the extent that it doesn’t hold true for me, I think it’s better to take into consideration better states as well as worse ones. Saying, “at least I don’t have it as bad as X” just doesn’t feel enough; everybody who doesn’t have it as bad as X could say it, and people in this category can vary widely in their levels of satisfaction, the more so the worse X has it. It’s more complete to say “Yes, but I don’t have it as good as Y either” or, better yet, “I have it better/worse than my need requires”.
by realizing we’re not at the far end of the unhappiness scale (since we have a counterexample to that), we should calibrate our feelings about our situation accordingly, yes?
Yes, yes, but now you are going into far more depth than the original quote. The idea behind the quote seems to have been (at least as I read it): “Be happy that you have feet, having feet is not something you should take for granted.” The quote says nothing more than that. (Well, not quite. The point it makes is not only meant to be reserved for feet specifically, but rather seems to be meant as a comment on anything people take for granted.)
… I think I see where you’re coming from—by realizing we’re not at the far end of the unhappiness scale (since we have a counterexample to that), we should calibrate our feelings about our situation accordingly, yes?
It’s still not the way I view things; I’d like to say I prefer judging these things according to an absolute standard, but it’s likely that that would be less true for me than I want it to be. To the extent that it doesn’t hold true for me, I think it’s better to take into consideration better states as well as worse ones. Saying, “at least I don’t have it as bad as X” just doesn’t feel enough; everybody who doesn’t have it as bad as X could say it, and people in this category can vary widely in their levels of satisfaction, the more so the worse X has it. It’s more complete to say “Yes, but I don’t have it as good as Y either” or, better yet, “I have it better/worse than my need requires”.
Yes, pretty much.
Yes, yes, but now you are going into far more depth than the original quote. The idea behind the quote seems to have been (at least as I read it): “Be happy that you have feet, having feet is not something you should take for granted.” The quote says nothing more than that. (Well, not quite. The point it makes is not only meant to be reserved for feet specifically, but rather seems to be meant as a comment on anything people take for granted.)