Okay, but P(doesn’t want you to change | loves you just the way you are) is higher than P(doesn’t want you to change | doesn’t love you just the way you are), and in addition P(you won’t change | you surround yourself with people who love you just the way you are) is higher than P(you won’t change | you don’t surround yourself with people who love you just the way you are).
“Love you just as you are” doesn’t imply “hate for you to change”.
After all, you are changing.
Okay, but P(doesn’t want you to change | loves you just the way you are) is higher than P(doesn’t want you to change | doesn’t love you just the way you are), and in addition P(you won’t change | you surround yourself with people who love you just the way you are) is higher than P(you won’t change | you don’t surround yourself with people who love you just the way you are).