An accurate emotion = “I’m angry because I should be angry because she is being really, really mean to me.”
A useful emotion = “Showing empathy towards someone being mean to me will minimize the cost to me of others’ hostility.”
Where’s that ‘should’ coming from? (Or are you just explaining the concept rather than endorsing it?)
I mean in the way most (non-LW) people would interpret it, so explaining not endorsing.
An accurate emotion = “I’m angry because I should be angry because she is being really, really mean to me.”
A useful emotion = “Showing empathy towards someone being mean to me will minimize the cost to me of others’ hostility.”
Where’s that ‘should’ coming from? (Or are you just explaining the concept rather than endorsing it?)
I mean in the way most (non-LW) people would interpret it, so explaining not endorsing.