Exactly. “What is it? I think I see it! I bet you can do even better next time!” is far less discouraging than “that’s horrible, I can’t even tell what it is!”
Assuming that your goal is to construct a well-functioning mind, that is. (Which I hope is the goal of everyone who decides to make a child)
Exactly. “What is it? I think I see it! I bet you can do even better next time!” is far less discouraging than “that’s horrible, I can’t even tell what it is!”
Assuming that your goal is to construct a well-functioning mind, that is. (Which I hope is the goal of everyone who decides to make a child)