Hmm… Yeah; my intuition says the people involved would be frowned upon a lot more in that case. But then again, before the first time I did something like that, my intuition had said I would be frowned upon a lot more than actually happened; so I don’t trust it so much anymore, IOW I’m not sure I should have updated my intuition about the male stripper case but not also that about the female stripper case in the same direction. (When someone does something that makes me update my model of humans, it usually doesn’t occur to me to only update my model of their gender and not that of the other gender—but in situations like this one there are potential confounders aplenty.)
Hmm… Yeah; my intuition says the people involved would be frowned upon a lot more in that case. But then again, before the first time I did something like that, my intuition had said I would be frowned upon a lot more than actually happened; so I don’t trust it so much anymore, IOW I’m not sure I should have updated my intuition about the male stripper case but not also that about the female stripper case in the same direction. (When someone does something that makes me update my model of humans, it usually doesn’t occur to me to only update my model of their gender and not that of the other gender—but in situations like this one there are potential confounders aplenty.)