The misogyny mostly comes from the fact that this situation happens much more often to girls than to boys (i.e. boy-groups are much more likely to have one of their members ask out a girl on a dare than the reverse, along with associated connotations and social implications).
My (admittedly limited) experience reveals no such trend, and indeed suggests the opposite. There is likely a great deal of variation.
My (admittedly limited) experience reveals no such trend, and indeed suggests the opposite. There is likely a great deal of variation.