Another dimension to get more good and less bad: you can ask for, and Alice can tell you, her reasons for wanting secrecy. Combined with explicitly saying that you’re not taking an absolutist posture, this can sometimes give you more leeway to do reasonable stuff.
In this case, sharing it with people who don’t know her and will likely never encounter her will do minimal harm, so you might suggest that as an exception to the secret keeping.
Another dimension to get more good and less bad: you can ask for, and Alice can tell you, her reasons for wanting secrecy. Combined with explicitly saying that you’re not taking an absolutist posture, this can sometimes give you more leeway to do reasonable stuff.
Well, the reason usually is “I fear it will make me look bad in the eyes of others”. What next?
In this case, sharing it with people who don’t know her and will likely never encounter her will do minimal harm, so you might suggest that as an exception to the secret keeping.