Regarding defection: In my experience, approaching someone with the information that I’m poly and would like to ask them out can be stressful, beyond the usual fear of rejection, because they might react extremely negatively and out me to people I don’t want to know about my relationship status.
Regarding defection: In my experience, approaching someone with the information that I’m poly and would like to ask them out can be stressful, beyond the usual fear of rejection, because they might react extremely negatively and out me to people I don’t want to know about my relationship status.