I would like it if we showed the world how accountability is done
So would I. But to do accountability (as distinguished from scapegoating, less-epistemic blame), we need to know what happened, and we need to accurately trust each other (or at least most of each other) to be able to figure out what happened, and to care what actually happened.
The “figure out what happened” and “get in a position where we can have a non-fucked conversation” steps come first, IMO.
I also sort of don’t expect that much goal divergence on the accountability steps that very-optimistically come after those steps, either, basically because integrity and visible trustworthiness serve most good goals in the long run, and vengeance or temporarily-overextended-trust serves little.
Though, accountability is admittedly a weak point of mine, so I might be missing/omitting something. Maybe spell it out if so?
I also sort of don’t expect that much goal divergence on the accountability steps that very-optimistically come after those steps, either, basically because integrity and visible trustworthiness serve most good goals in the long run, and vengeance or temporarily-overextended-trust serves little.
To clarify: goal divergence between whom? Geoff and Zoe? Zoe and me? Me and you?
So would I. But to do accountability (as distinguished from scapegoating, less-epistemic blame), we need to know what happened, and we need to accurately trust each other (or at least most of each other) to be able to figure out what happened, and to care what actually happened.
The “figure out what happened” and “get in a position where we can have a non-fucked conversation” steps come first, IMO.
I also sort of don’t expect that much goal divergence on the accountability steps that very-optimistically come after those steps, either, basically because integrity and visible trustworthiness serve most good goals in the long run, and vengeance or temporarily-overextended-trust serves little.
Though, accountability is admittedly a weak point of mine, so I might be missing/omitting something. Maybe spell it out if so?
To clarify: goal divergence between whom? Geoff and Zoe? Zoe and me? Me and you?