Disclaimer: I don’t actually have any experience in the type of situation being discussed. If someone has observations that contradict my hypothesis, then I am most likely wrong (at least with regard to the specific social/cultural setting in which the observations take place.)
If someone’s concluded that you’re a recovering alcoholic from the statement “I have my reasons,” then they will also probably conclude that you’re trying hard to change that, considering that you’re refusing to drink alcohol right here and now. The main social negative that I could see coming out of the situation is that the “stone-cold dead delivery” might make someone think that you’re particularly sensitive or have a temper.
I would start by saying the line in a more neutral tone, perhaps with a quirk to one side of your mouth and a slight shrug, giving the impression that you’re shrugging off something mildly unpleasant but aren’t upset at person talking to you. If he pushes the point, I would aim for a flatter tone.
Disclaimer: I don’t actually have any experience in the type of situation being discussed. If someone has observations that contradict my hypothesis, then I am most likely wrong (at least with regard to the specific social/cultural setting in which the observations take place.)
If someone’s concluded that you’re a recovering alcoholic from the statement “I have my reasons,” then they will also probably conclude that you’re trying hard to change that, considering that you’re refusing to drink alcohol right here and now. The main social negative that I could see coming out of the situation is that the “stone-cold dead delivery” might make someone think that you’re particularly sensitive or have a temper.
I would start by saying the line in a more neutral tone, perhaps with a quirk to one side of your mouth and a slight shrug, giving the impression that you’re shrugging off something mildly unpleasant but aren’t upset at person talking to you. If he pushes the point, I would aim for a flatter tone.