I greatly appreciate posts that describe when different flavors of self work (or different kinds of problems) don’t feel like how one expected. A somewhat reversed example for me, for some years I didn’t notice the intense judgement I had within me that would occasionally point at others and myself, largely because I had a particular stereotype of what “being judgemental” looked like. I correctly determined I didn’t do the stereotypically judgemental thing, and stopped hunting.
I greatly appreciate posts that describe when different flavors of self work (or different kinds of problems) don’t feel like how one expected. A somewhat reversed example for me, for some years I didn’t notice the intense judgement I had within me that would occasionally point at others and myself, largely because I had a particular stereotype of what “being judgemental” looked like. I correctly determined I didn’t do the stereotypically judgemental thing, and stopped hunting.