My only experience with poly was negative. (There were details here, but I removed them for reasons.)
I have decided that poly is way too complicated for me and I have no intention of pursuing a poly relationship in the future. I left this feeling more like a piece in a collection than a human.
Exactly what do you find complicated in poly? The first time I heard about polyamory, I thought for a while, then thought, “hm, this makes sense”. Monogamy, on the other hand, looks unnecessarily complicated to me.
Great question. The important qualification is for me. My main issue comes down to making sure that every partner I have is happy with our relationship. I barely have enough time to dedicate to one partner.
My only experience with poly was negative. (There were details here, but I removed them for reasons.)
I have decided that poly is way too complicated for me and I have no intention of pursuing a poly relationship in the future. I left this feeling more like a piece in a collection than a human.
I am sorry someone made you feel that way.
thank you for the data point all the same :)
Exactly what do you find complicated in poly? The first time I heard about polyamory, I thought for a while, then thought, “hm, this makes sense”. Monogamy, on the other hand, looks unnecessarily complicated to me.
Great question. The important qualification is for me. My main issue comes down to making sure that every partner I have is happy with our relationship. I barely have enough time to dedicate to one partner.