I give some arguments for self-coercion in this post:
https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/HDHqvf9vMqSXEBCLh/would-most-people-benefit-from-being-less-coercive-to
I give some arguments for self-coercion in this post:
https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/HDHqvf9vMqSXEBCLh/would-most-people-benefit-from-being-less-coercive-to