If OP was geniunely curious, she could’ve looked for evidence beyond her personal feelings (e.g. ran an internet survey) and / or asked Kat privately. What OP did here is called “concern trolling”.
I agree that that would be evidence of OP being more curious. I just don’t think that given what OP actually did it can be said that she wasn’t curious at all.
If OP was geniunely curious, she could’ve looked for evidence beyond her personal feelings (e.g. ran an internet survey) and / or asked Kat privately. What OP did here is called “concern trolling”.
I agree that that would be evidence of OP being more curious. I just don’t think that given what OP actually did it can be said that she wasn’t curious at all.