The first also implies that something could be wrong, but your first idea about what needs to be changed might not be accurate.
The first one is about a specific discovery I made as a result of following the second.
Now that you mention it, the third is a somewhat different angle on the first—I didn’t realize how closely linked the three are. The first one is about my finding out a very specific bad approach I’ve been using.
The third isn’t as specific about the problem, but acknowledges that even actions which jam problems into place are well-intended. It was actually a revelation that a mistake I’d made was an effort to improve my life instead of generic evidence about how fucked up I was.
At this point, I’m curious about whatever people might want to say about problems which aren’t related to perfectionism.
The first also implies that something could be wrong, but your first idea about what needs to be changed might not be accurate.
The first one is about a specific discovery I made as a result of following the second.
Now that you mention it, the third is a somewhat different angle on the first—I didn’t realize how closely linked the three are. The first one is about my finding out a very specific bad approach I’ve been using.
The third isn’t as specific about the problem, but acknowledges that even actions which jam problems into place are well-intended. It was actually a revelation that a mistake I’d made was an effort to improve my life instead of generic evidence about how fucked up I was.
At this point, I’m curious about whatever people might want to say about problems which aren’t related to perfectionism.