Seems to me that people who say they don’t want submission often actually want an approach even more “submissive” than submission itself—instead of merely overriding your opinions and desires, they want to overwrite them.
The whole point of the OP is that this never works. (Yes, even when it appears to work, it’s because the people involved have learned to guess the teacher’s password—not because they actually share your views!) Sure, it’s great when people eventually come around to your POV, but this is not something you can expect, much less demand from anyone.
The whole point of the OP is that this never works. (Yes, even when it appears to work, it’s because the people involved have learned to guess the teacher’s password—not because they actually share your views!) Sure, it’s great when people eventually come around to your POV, but this is not something you can expect, much less demand from anyone.
Sure. What one wants, and what one actually gets, can be two different things.