If you are a smart individual in todays society, you shouldn’t ignore threats of punishment
If today’s society consisted mostly of smart individuals, they would overthrow the government that does something unfair instead of giving in to its threats.
Should you update your idea of fairness if you get rejected often?
Only if you’re a kid who’s playing with other human kids (which is the scenario described in the quoted text), and converging on fairness possibly includes getting some idea of how much effort various things take different people.
If you’re an actual grown-up (not that we have those) and you’re playing with aliens, you probably don’t update, and you certainly don’t update in the direction of anything asymmetric.
If today’s society consisted mostly of smart individuals, they would overthrow the government that does something unfair instead of giving in to its threats.
Only if you’re a kid who’s playing with other human kids (which is the scenario described in the quoted text), and converging on fairness possibly includes getting some idea of how much effort various things take different people.
If you’re an actual grown-up (not that we have those) and you’re playing with aliens, you probably don’t update, and you certainly don’t update in the direction of anything asymmetric.