Not related to the ceremony (which reads beautifully, if overly poetically for my tastes), but would it not be a rational thing to give some upfront thought to how to detangle the two lives if and when they drift apart, despite their best effort? After all, the odds are barely 50⁄50 even for a natural lifespan, let alone this potential infinity. The courage to “to try and build something greater out of the union of their lives” is all fine and dandy, but having a backup plan seems only reasonable. Presumably something other than the standard legal prenup. I wonder if this particular couple gave some thought to this, and whether they would be willing to share it.
Probably better if they’re educated, white or Asian, not pregnant, and not super young. I don’t know their demographics.
Before marrying, my husband and I discussed the circumstances in which we thought divorce was acceptable for us (abuse was one). As far as including that in the ceremony, I don’t see a need.
Even discounting the demographic issues juliawise brings up, the odds are better than that for a first marriage, because the divorce rate of approximately .5 includes successive marriages, and people who’ve been divorced before and remarry are significantly more likely to divorce again than people who’re on their first marriage.
Not related to the ceremony (which reads beautifully, if overly poetically for my tastes), but would it not be a rational thing to give some upfront thought to how to detangle the two lives if and when they drift apart, despite their best effort? After all, the odds are barely 50⁄50 even for a natural lifespan, let alone this potential infinity. The courage to “to try and build something greater out of the union of their lives” is all fine and dandy, but having a backup plan seems only reasonable. Presumably something other than the standard legal prenup. I wonder if this particular couple gave some thought to this, and whether they would be willing to share it.
Probably better if they’re educated, white or Asian, not pregnant, and not super young. I don’t know their demographics.
Before marrying, my husband and I discussed the circumstances in which we thought divorce was acceptable for us (abuse was one). As far as including that in the ceremony, I don’t see a need.
Even discounting the demographic issues juliawise brings up, the odds are better than that for a first marriage, because the divorce rate of approximately .5 includes successive marriages, and people who’ve been divorced before and remarry are significantly more likely to divorce again than people who’re on their first marriage.