Forgive first violations, but also make sure they learn from their mistake. If they seem uninterested in learning, maybe be less forgiving.
Severely punish people who don’t back off when told to.
Convince everyone that there exist people who are radically different from them, or something. I’m so fed up with not being believed when I explain how I’m different. (This is not a problem among LWers.)
is almost exactly the Duncan-culture solution as well.
Strong upvote because:
is almost exactly the Duncan-culture solution as well.
From what I’ve read of your facebook posts, I think I would be happy living in Duncan culture.