it seems that most of the harm of holding onto a grudge comes from the emotional level and the drives level, but less from the duties level.
The phrase “an eye for an eye” could be construed as duty—that the wrong another does you is a debt you have to repay. (Possibly inflated, or with interest. It’s also been argued that it’s about (motivating) recompense—you pay the price for taking another’s eye, or you lose yours.)
Interesting point, but you’re using duty differently than me. I’m talking about their duties towards you. Of course, we could have divided it another way or added extra levels.
The phrase “an eye for an eye” could be construed as duty—that the wrong another does you is a debt you have to repay. (Possibly inflated, or with interest. It’s also been argued that it’s about (motivating) recompense—you pay the price for taking another’s eye, or you lose yours.)
Interesting point, but you’re using duty differently than me. I’m talking about their duties towards you. Of course, we could have divided it another way or added extra levels.
Your duties (towards others) may include what you are supposed to do if others don’t fulfill their duties (towards you).