You want to help? Figure out what kind of incremental changes you can begin to introduce in any of them, in order to begin extinguishing the sort of problems you’ve now elevated to the rank of “saving-worthy” in your own head. Note that, in all likelihood, by extinguishing one you will merrily introduce a whole bunch of others—something you won’t get to discover until much later one. Yet that is, realistically, what you can actually go on to accomplish.
I read this paragraph as saying ~the same thing as the original post in a different tone
I read this paragraph as saying ~the same thing as the original post in a different tone