The issue isn’t whether a threat to ban was made explicitly or not (the only moderator powers are to ban and to delete posts, as far as I know, therefore “I ask as a moderator” implies “I have a gun in my hand, give me a reason to not use it”). The issue is whether moderators are in charge of policing posts and comments on the basis of “does it offend my sensitivities”.
The EphemeralNight’s post was compared, justifiably in my opinion, to bad adolescent goth poetry. Do you think that “I want an answer for how you could think it was reasonable to leave out female preferences” is, in any way, an adequate response to bad goth poetry?
“I have a gun in my hand, give me a reason to not use it”
It could also be “I have a gun: you might want to consider keeping on the right side of me lest I use it later”.
does it offend my sensitivities
As you can see from (e.g.) Richard Kennaway’s comment, the votes on Nancy’s question, etc., it is by no means only Nancy’s sensitivities that are at issue here.
an adequate response to bad goth poetry
Whether something is as badly written as bad goth poetry is an entirely separate question from whether it should be judged as if it is bad goth poetry.
The issue isn’t whether a threat to ban was made explicitly or not (the only moderator powers are to ban and to delete posts, as far as I know, therefore “I ask as a moderator” implies “I have a gun in my hand, give me a reason to not use it”). The issue is whether moderators are in charge of policing posts and comments on the basis of “does it offend my sensitivities”.
The EphemeralNight’s post was compared, justifiably in my opinion, to bad adolescent goth poetry. Do you think that “I want an answer for how you could think it was reasonable to leave out female preferences” is, in any way, an adequate response to bad goth poetry?
It could also be “I have a gun: you might want to consider keeping on the right side of me lest I use it later”.
As you can see from (e.g.) Richard Kennaway’s comment, the votes on Nancy’s question, etc., it is by no means only Nancy’s sensitivities that are at issue here.
Whether something is as badly written as bad goth poetry is an entirely separate question from whether it should be judged as if it is bad goth poetry.