I wouldn’t upvote this in any case, as it doesn’t belong here as it stands.
With some thorough editing, and a lot of boiling down, it could turn into an insightful discussion of the blind spot so many people have where social needs are concerned; that education or internet are something like a basic human right, but sexual satisfaction, which is far more primal and necessary to us, isn’t. It’s a necessary blind spot in ideologies which treat needs as rights to be satisfied by other people, because it’s full of ugly truths about those ideologies.
But I doubt the insightful post would be received well, either. Perhaps I overestimate people, but I suspect most people have an inkling of the currents running under the surface, here.
Interestingly, there appears (at least in my local cultural circle) that being attended by human caretakers when incapacitated by age, is supposed to be a basic right. Hence, there must be some other reason—and not just the problem about rights being fulfilled by other persons, why the particular example assumed to underlie the parable, is reprehensible to many people.
There is another reason. In social-standing friendly language, “Sex is sacred”.
For the less socially-friendly approach… sex is clearly not sacred, and the issue isn’t the idea of sex being a right, as one can readily see by looking at people who can complain about involuntary celibacy without much social risk, and do so. I’m not going to name the ugliness, both because it’s broad and ill-defined—a patch of area defined more by what a set of ideologies fail to say, than what they explicitly name—but also because it’s something you have to see for yourself to believe.
I wouldn’t upvote this in any case, as it doesn’t belong here as it stands.
With some thorough editing, and a lot of boiling down, it could turn into an insightful discussion of the blind spot so many people have where social needs are concerned; that education or internet are something like a basic human right, but sexual satisfaction, which is far more primal and necessary to us, isn’t. It’s a necessary blind spot in ideologies which treat needs as rights to be satisfied by other people, because it’s full of ugly truths about those ideologies.
But I doubt the insightful post would be received well, either. Perhaps I overestimate people, but I suspect most people have an inkling of the currents running under the surface, here.
Interestingly, there appears (at least in my local cultural circle) that being attended by human caretakers when incapacitated by age, is supposed to be a basic right. Hence, there must be some other reason—and not just the problem about rights being fulfilled by other persons, why the particular example assumed to underlie the parable, is reprehensible to many people.
There is another reason. In social-standing friendly language, “Sex is sacred”.
For the less socially-friendly approach… sex is clearly not sacred, and the issue isn’t the idea of sex being a right, as one can readily see by looking at people who can complain about involuntary celibacy without much social risk, and do so. I’m not going to name the ugliness, both because it’s broad and ill-defined—a patch of area defined more by what a set of ideologies fail to say, than what they explicitly name—but also because it’s something you have to see for yourself to believe.