Why is the significance of that combination so difficult for people to grasp?
If I’m understanding you correctly, you mean the combination between someone suggesting that feeling unfairness about rejection could lead to violence, and then someone responding by expressing such unfairness?
No, you are not getting it at all. The combination of:
Criticising someone for raising the fear of rape issue
Giving a reason for the criticism that raising this fear shows an insensitivity to unattractive men
And then raising the infamous suggestion.
ETA: And to frost the cake, next came the nonchalant observation that “There is apparently no greater female nightmare scenario than mating with a less-than-optimally-attractive male.”
If I’m understanding you correctly, you mean the combination between someone suggesting that feeling unfairness about rejection could lead to violence, and then someone responding by expressing such unfairness?
No, you are not getting it at all. The combination of:
Criticising someone for raising the fear of rape issue
Giving a reason for the criticism that raising this fear shows an insensitivity to unattractive men
And then raising the infamous suggestion.
ETA: And to frost the cake, next came the nonchalant observation that “There is apparently no greater female nightmare scenario than mating with a less-than-optimally-attractive male.”