You didn’t actually mention Y, but even if you had, you wouldn’t have data to support the comparison of abuses(X,Y) to abuses(Y, X), which seemed to be your claim.
As I said, I was comparing abused-by(X, me) to abused-by(Y, me), in rejection of the hypothesis that males are not subjected to cruel “street harassment” by females.
As I said, I was comparing abused-by(X, me) to abused-by(Y, me), in rejection of the hypothesis that males are not subjected to cruel “street harassment” by females.
Your notation is unconventional—I read “abused-by(X,you)” as “X was abused by you”. I know this is the converse of what you really meant.