To my mind, the only reasonable response to komponisto’s comment, inserted as it was into the conversation at that point, would have been a very strong and unanimous expression of indignation.
You have switched from talking about communicating individual feelings of indignation to demanding unanimous community indignation. This seems to cast your earlier comments as deceitful.
You have switched from talking about communicating individual feelings of indignation to demanding unanimous community indignation.
It wasn’t exactly a demand. A wish maybe. Yet, even as a wish, unanimity is a bit ridiculous. I apologize for at least that bit of hyperbole.
This seems to cast your earlier comments as deceitful.
I may be missing a connection here. How deceitful?
And which earlier comments? My most recent earlier comments were to the effect that actually signaling emotional state, rather than hiding it, is frequently useful to both signaler and signaled. Useful to the signaled because it warns of a problem which maybe ought to be dealt with. Useful to the signaler because it pretty much commits the socialized signaler to providing clarification and suggestions, if such are requested.
(How is that useful to signaler? Well, I think that pretty much anything that keeps you honest is useful.)
So, if expressing indignation is a good thing for an individual to do, it is an even better thing for lots of individuals to do.
My most recent earlier comments were to the effect that actually signaling emotional state, rather than hiding it, is frequently useful to both signaler and signaled. Useful to the signaled because it warns of a problem which maybe ought to be dealt with. Useful to the signaler because it pretty much commits the socialized signaler to providing clarification and suggestions, if such are requested. (How is that useful to signaler? Well, I think that pretty much anything that keeps you honest is useful.)
When you put it this way, I agree with you. I just think that there are ways of signaling emotional state that work better than others for actually helping the other person change their mind, rather than (a) blindly submit, or (b) dig in their heels.
You have switched from talking about communicating individual feelings of indignation to demanding unanimous community indignation. This seems to cast your earlier comments as deceitful.
It wasn’t exactly a demand. A wish maybe. Yet, even as a wish, unanimity is a bit ridiculous. I apologize for at least that bit of hyperbole.
I may be missing a connection here. How deceitful?
And which earlier comments? My most recent earlier comments were to the effect that actually signaling emotional state, rather than hiding it, is frequently useful to both signaler and signaled. Useful to the signaled because it warns of a problem which maybe ought to be dealt with. Useful to the signaler because it pretty much commits the socialized signaler to providing clarification and suggestions, if such are requested. (How is that useful to signaler? Well, I think that pretty much anything that keeps you honest is useful.)
So, if expressing indignation is a good thing for an individual to do, it is an even better thing for lots of individuals to do.
When you put it this way, I agree with you. I just think that there are ways of signaling emotional state that work better than others for actually helping the other person change their mind, rather than (a) blindly submit, or (b) dig in their heels.