The former. Whenever someone complains to me that they don’t have time to do something they (claim to) enjoy greatly (let’s call it activity X), but I know that they spend a lot of time watching TV, reading books, etc., and I’m confident that they enjoy TV, etc. less than activity X, it’s pretty easy to conclude they use their time poorly. And I don’t think I’m unjustified in that belief.
The former. Whenever someone complains to me that they don’t have time to do something they (claim to) enjoy greatly (let’s call it activity X), but I know that they spend a lot of time watching TV, reading books, etc., and I’m confident that they enjoy TV, etc. less than activity X, it’s pretty easy to conclude they use their time poorly. And I don’t think I’m unjustified in that belief.
Well, there is the issue of revealed preferences...
It’s certainly possible that they don’t actually prefer what they claim to. I don’t see any reason to argue with people about that.