Do they make you angry and defensive when you contemplate them on your own? When you read a book making those claims? When discussing them privately with someone else? Only when you discuss them in company?
If the answer isn’t “all of those” then maybe it would be helpful to try to evaluate those claims in a context that doesn’t stir up anger and defensiveness.
Do they make you angry and defensive when you contemplate them on your own? When you read a book making those claims? When discussing them privately with someone else? Only when you discuss them in company?
If the answer isn’t “all of those” then maybe it would be helpful to try to evaluate those claims in a context that doesn’t stir up anger and defensiveness.
Thanks. I will try to see if there is a setting in which my reaction is not as strong.