Things that healthy people don’t have innate dispositions towards: Optimism, Pessimism, Agreeability, Disagreeability, Patience, Impatience.
Whether you are those things should completely depend on the situation you’re in. If it doesn’t, you may be engaging in magical thinking about how the world works. Things are not guaranteed to go well, nor poorly. People are not fully trustworthy, nor are they consistently malignant. Some things are worth nurturing, others aren’t. It’s all situational.
Things that healthy people don’t have innate dispositions towards: Optimism, Pessimism, Agreeability, Disagreeability, Patience, Impatience.
Whether you are those things should completely depend on the situation you’re in. If it doesn’t, you may be engaging in magical thinking about how the world works. Things are not guaranteed to go well, nor poorly. People are not fully trustworthy, nor are they consistently malignant. Some things are worth nurturing, others aren’t. It’s all situational.