For that reason, and those listed by Bugmaster, I’ve considered doing a realistic variant of Radical Honesty. Specifically, one would need to account for the full range of social and communication customs, and rather than try to act out some blunt idea of honesty, the goal would be to avoid deception. Deception means, roughly, using someone’s expectation of your truthful representation, to lead them away from a belief you deem true.
This standard would differ in that, for example:
It would not require you to give precise, accurate answers to “How are you doing?” (and other small talk) because people do not expect your answer to be strongly indicative of your exact state, and therefore will not be misled into believing excessively positive things about your state if you answer “Good”.
It would not require you to say negative things you believe about others to their face. This is because of the information contained in how far a belief of yours is from common knowledge) itself affects their belief distribution. When you say, “I don’t like that tie”, you’re not just changing their beliefs about your opinion about the tie; you are conveying that you want them to know your opinion, and for you to know they know, etc. which has significantly different consequences for their model than the object level knowledge of your opinion.
It would require that you not be ambiguous in cases where your ambiguity would, based on their expectations and trust in you, lead them to believe something farther from what you think is the truth.
Your approach sounds good, but it also sound like plain, ordinary, run-of-the-mill honesty. It’s not very “Radical”; and many (though, perhaps, far from most) people already practice it every day.
For that reason, and those listed by Bugmaster, I’ve considered doing a realistic variant of Radical Honesty. Specifically, one would need to account for the full range of social and communication customs, and rather than try to act out some blunt idea of honesty, the goal would be to avoid deception. Deception means, roughly, using someone’s expectation of your truthful representation, to lead them away from a belief you deem true.
This standard would differ in that, for example:
It would not require you to give precise, accurate answers to “How are you doing?” (and other small talk) because people do not expect your answer to be strongly indicative of your exact state, and therefore will not be misled into believing excessively positive things about your state if you answer “Good”.
It would not require you to say negative things you believe about others to their face. This is because of the information contained in how far a belief of yours is from common knowledge) itself affects their belief distribution. When you say, “I don’t like that tie”, you’re not just changing their beliefs about your opinion about the tie; you are conveying that you want them to know your opinion, and for you to know they know, etc. which has significantly different consequences for their model than the object level knowledge of your opinion.
It would require that you not be ambiguous in cases where your ambiguity would, based on their expectations and trust in you, lead them to believe something farther from what you think is the truth.
Your approach sounds good, but it also sound like plain, ordinary, run-of-the-mill honesty. It’s not very “Radical”; and many (though, perhaps, far from most) people already practice it every day.
But perhaps I am missing something ?