I have to concur and further emphasize that the most impressive people aren’t those that rigidly lock themselves into the high status mode in every transaction. Sure, being limited to only high status moves is better (for most people in circumstances we are familiar with) than being limited to only low status moves but being able to use either as the situation arises is far more useful. And I don’t just mean being able to submit to the more powerful, for all that is useful.
(This and the grandparent strike me as quite important and counter a very deep unstated assumption in most every discussion of status I’ve seen on LW. I think that this is top level post material!)
Are you of the opinion that people on this site, in their daily lives, are erring on the side of implementing too many high status moves? Or that the people you met in SF while at the mega-camp were doing this stuff too much (Michael Vassar and Eliezer aside)? I agree that the optimum isn’t either extreme, I think the nudging should be towards high status behavior.
And does anything in the original post endorse the high status behaviors over the low status ones?
I have to concur and further emphasize that the most impressive people aren’t those that rigidly lock themselves into the high status mode in every transaction. Sure, being limited to only high status moves is better (for most people in circumstances we are familiar with) than being limited to only low status moves but being able to use either as the situation arises is far more useful. And I don’t just mean being able to submit to the more powerful, for all that is useful.
(This and the grandparent strike me as quite important and counter a very deep unstated assumption in most every discussion of status I’ve seen on LW. I think that this is top level post material!)
Are you of the opinion that people on this site, in their daily lives, are erring on the side of implementing too many high status moves? Or that the people you met in SF while at the mega-camp were doing this stuff too much (Michael Vassar and Eliezer aside)? I agree that the optimum isn’t either extreme, I think the nudging should be towards high status behavior.
And does anything in the original post endorse the high status behaviors over the low status ones?
No.
On average no. Some possible exceptions.
Yes.
To precisely the extent that my reply to Will suggests that it does. (Um, no?)