It seems that the text of what you’re saying implies you think humans have no agency over discourse norms, regulations, rules of games, etc, but that seems absurd so I don’t think you actually believe that. Perhaps you’ve given up on affecting them, though.
I do think that is possible and often correct to push for some discourse norms over others. I will often reward moves that I think are good, and will sometimes challenge moves that I think are harmful to our collective epistemology.
But I don’t think that I have much ability to “choose” how other people will respond to my speech acts. The world is a lot bigger than me, and it would be imprudent to miss-model that fact that, for instance, many people will not or cannot follow some forms of argument, but will just round what you’re saying to the closest thing that they can understand. And that this can sometimes cause damage.
(I think that you must agree with this? Or maybe you think that you should refuse to engage in groups where the collective epistemology can’t track nuanced argument? I don’t think I’m getting you yet.)
Bidding to move to a private space isn’t necessarily bad but at the same time it’s not an argument. “I want to take this private” doesn’t argue for any object-level position
I absolutely agree.
I think the main thing I want to stand for here is both that obviously the consequences of believing or saying a statement have no bearing on its truth value (except in unusual self-fulfilling prophecy edge cases), and it is often reasonable to say “Hey man, I don’t think you should say that here in this context where bystanders will overhear you.”
I’m afraid that those two might being conflated, or that one is is being confused for the other (not in this dialogue, but in the world).
To be clear, I’m not sure that I’m disagreeing with you. I do have the feeling that we are missing each other somehow.
Yes, and Carter is arguing in a context where it’s easy to shift the discourse norms, since there are few people present in the conversation.
LW doesn’t have that many active users, it’s possible to write posts arguing for discourse norms, sometimes to convince moderators they are good, etc.
and it is often reasonable to say “Hey man, I don’t think you should say that here in this context where bystanders will overhear you.”
Sure, and also “that’s just your opinion, man, so I’ll keep talking” is often a valid response to that. It’s important not to bias towards saying exposing information is risky while hiding it is not.
I do think that is possible and often correct to push for some discourse norms over others. I will often reward moves that I think are good, and will sometimes challenge moves that I think are harmful to our collective epistemology.
But I don’t think that I have much ability to “choose” how other people will respond to my speech acts. The world is a lot bigger than me, and it would be imprudent to miss-model that fact that, for instance, many people will not or cannot follow some forms of argument, but will just round what you’re saying to the closest thing that they can understand. And that this can sometimes cause damage.
(I think that you must agree with this? Or maybe you think that you should refuse to engage in groups where the collective epistemology can’t track nuanced argument? I don’t think I’m getting you yet.)
I absolutely agree.
I think the main thing I want to stand for here is both that obviously the consequences of believing or saying a statement have no bearing on its truth value (except in unusual self-fulfilling prophecy edge cases), and it is often reasonable to say “Hey man, I don’t think you should say that here in this context where bystanders will overhear you.”
I’m afraid that those two might being conflated, or that one is is being confused for the other (not in this dialogue, but in the world).
To be clear, I’m not sure that I’m disagreeing with you. I do have the feeling that we are missing each other somehow.
Yes, and Carter is arguing in a context where it’s easy to shift the discourse norms, since there are few people present in the conversation.
LW doesn’t have that many active users, it’s possible to write posts arguing for discourse norms, sometimes to convince moderators they are good, etc.
Sure, and also “that’s just your opinion, man, so I’ll keep talking” is often a valid response to that. It’s important not to bias towards saying exposing information is risky while hiding it is not.
I think you meant ‘do not think’?
Yep. Fixed.