People manage to be friendly without apriori knowledge of everyone else’s preferences. Human values are very complex...and one person’s preferences are not another’s.
Being the same species comes with certain advantages for the possiibility of cooperation. But I wasn’t very friendly towards a wasp-nest I discovered in my attic. People aren’t very friendly to the vast majority of different species they deal with.
Being the same species comes with certain advantages for the possiibility of cooperation. But I wasn’t very friendly towards a wasp-nest I discovered in my attic. People aren’t very friendly to the vast majority of different species they deal with.